Dumped for kissing too much.....

  I guess you can never really say you've 'seen it all' when it comes to certain issues. Especially when it concerns relationships.  Well I was reading through emails and saw one from a young man who seemed confused and wanted to know why his girlfriend didn't want him anymore;
Reason:  He was kissing too much.
Seriously? ............ Wait a minute; Kissing too much?

Even though for the most part the story was just funny, I considered it interesting too and a good Idea to share the story with the public.  Here's the email I got:

"Hi,
  I'm in an unbelievable situation. I just got dumped by my girlfriend and I'm confused. Last year she complained that I was too busy and that I didn't dedicate enough time to her, to avoid that I asked her to move in with me and along the line I started working less time.
  Recently she started saying we kiss too much. I didn't really take it so seriously until I kissed her the next day and she complained again and then she started throwing things at me and yelling at me, her exact words were "we kiss too much, I've told you several times and you don't listen. We've kissed 10 years worth of kiss in one day and I can't take it anymore, I'm not going to let you kill me by bombarding me with your never ending kisses...... I'm leaving you." And that was it. A two years old relationship gone for such a stupid excuse. I couldn't figure out why. I know I've been really nice to her. Even till today no one believes me when I say that was how it ended. Why will she leave me for such a ridiculous excuse after almost two years of being together?"

Okay now lets think about this...........


The last time I checked kissing was a great thing so there's no way it can hurt a relationship

 So many people have broken up over some really weird reasons but I've never heard of a relationship ending as a result of too much kisses. It's very likely she's been wanting to break up with him for a while now and he didn't give her any good reason to use as an excuse because like he said he was really nice to her. That was probably the best she could come up with and I don't think he should be trying to blame himself over that. He might have loved her but obviously she didn't care that much about him.
  There's always someone special for everyone, you just have to find that person.


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